Two teenaged girls should have some following thoughts!
One: Have grades
After how old girl come 20, begin to study management diligently soon, it reflects on one's own appearance and ability to control oneself, every girl is special, there should be one's own unique grades, perhaps a lot of girls will think grade and the fashion or luxury goods are got in touch, in fact, it samples to be attitude go thing of observing alone, same things, different persons will present different editions under eyes, the value of articles and level of the grade are no matter, the girl will appreciate a thing with one's own sight, will select the things with advanced taste.
On some intensity, one's taste and her makings are complementing each other, the level of the grade depends on a girl's discovery to the new things in daily life, the grade is one's own unique taste, each girl should have one's own taste, so long as one low-priced ornaments wear appear different class to belong to it, it can demonstrate own taste too. Can in order to see more fashion magazine, promote oneself to to appreciate degree dress,etc. when usually.
(Oh, not bad, Miss this seem, like, wear, produce own taste come on with money at least too at ordinary times, this point is praised and praised by the friend around repeatedly, have a look around the fashion in idea, fashion magazines such as the beauty,etc. dabble fast, fashion that but never follow blindly)
Two: Get used to reading
After how old girl come 20, already begin the contact society slowly, in the course of associating with others, style of conversation and training can conquer the others' one most. I do not believe a girl not liking reading, she will be full of intelligently. When being OK, go to the bookstore to stroll, choosing several and actually could promote one's own books to buy back home and read conscientiously, no matter masterpiece or financing or encourage, deserve our place for study, the book can let people's life be abundant, can let people's thought be changed too, choose to read a good book, surpass an outstanding coaching teacher.
The girl liking reading, she must be calm and having very good psychologies, because in the ocean of the books, the absorption nutrition of the mouth that the girl can be big. The girl liking reading, she must spoken master and graceful knowing woman. Reading conscientiously, can let the mood be calm, and is hiding very great fun in the books, while running into the book that a copy of oneself is interested in, will find the mood is joyful, and there is very great intelligence in every book, the books read all will be the capital in girl's social activity, it is believed that nobody will like associating with a superficial girl. Having chosen the books suitable, it can teach people a lot of philosophic theories, and will let you learn to meet the agony or happiness in life with the psychology of a kind of gentle disposition.
(Agree to: What I wanted to be most is the knowing beauty such as Xu Jinglei too, Xu Gehui, such a person of Chen Luyu is the type that I always like, I think a girl should have romance of bright and intelligent and literature of philosophy and human touch of the fragrant one, it is a knowing woman that these are combined together)
Three: Try to find the beauty in life
Behind how old girl reach 20, flee from gloomy novel those soon, it only can let everybody with sad to stick to near, life is not a reprint of the plot in the novel. Don't remind misfortune that oneself meet whether want, know, have a lot of even unfortunate than you person at the world always, can look up, see sunshine lucky, setback of life those it only first interlude that can't be less compared with man's life. Want to have a foothold in this society, there is a gentle psychology soon, during the life that will be swayed by considerations of gain or loss, we are always choosing, being chosen by others too, we should have A Q spirit, painful and happy life is all our choice, why let oneself indulge in the agony?
Some people let oneself fall into a kind of unfortunate thought because of emotion or setback at work, cause them can become pessimistic person, do what have frightened, whether afraid of failing, or think that will not succeed oneself. What kind man brags about oneself, in heart that she can only live and give oneself and set is firm, who is qualified to say that will not succeed oneself? Who dare say that will not succeed oneself? Think successful people are all optimistic persons, it is the successful hindrance forever to be pessimistic, only positive and upward sentiment will let life become bright, believe that tomorrow will be good than today, so long as you are diligent, the society must be fair, the life that don't pay an old sore, otherwise can only prove the efforts that your one's own real one goes.
(Oh, I want to be good at finding the beauty of life, and thinking of conforming to no conventional pattern and feeling this are art and ability of a kind of life, it is nourished oneself that it is the soul too and best chance of self-education)
Four: Make friends with intelligent outstanding people
After how old girl reach 20, begin choosing the friend purposive soon, people pulse extraordinary importance of society, and you choose friend that join too can enclose influence on having greatly in your life, if friend of you some positive optimistic person upwards, you can whom them are infect too, if your friend is a pessimist, only know the life of paying an old sore all day, the work that but can not be pragmatical, it is long, you will be infected too. People are very important when choosing the friend, sometimes want to understand a person, what kind of person attitude towards life coming to find out about him it can too be from his friend. The ones that do not want easily make friends, with whom should pay attention to choosing too to make friends.
A good friend can let your life have very big changes, he will let you become optimistic. After how old girl reach 20, have more friend is selfish to that is to say a bit, want, make more pairs of oneself helpful friend, you can learn things from their body, but want to make friends, you will pay them sincerely soon, don't be just in order to want to utilize them to associate with them, nobody is a fool, you are kind and bad to others, others can see all clear. Let's make friends with one's own sincerity and those intelligent outstanding people!
Different life
(I am puzzled sometimes, it seems that the people around me all like absorbing passion and vigor from me, thinking and inspiration, I always think it is a little narrow that the contacts are enclosed, once thought of a method of remedying, that is a column such as the woman all over the world that often goes to see interview of famous person and dialogue,etc., such as the celebrity face-to-face, for example see model of all kinds of outstanding women in all kinds of classical films,etc.)
Five: Keep away from foam idol's drama
After how old girl reach 20, begin, far away from false idol drama those soon, there are all that boys or girls in life yearn for on charming princes and Cinderellas on TV, it does not really exist, the deep influencing people's idea too of sometimes some plots appearing like the TV play, for example will present the vicious mother-in-law in some TV plays, or find that it is the one's own kissing brother and sister,etc. to love one's own person deeply, plot these only for let people's anxious state of mind, it can not tie to actual life, it is who surmounts life, the girl should not wallow in this kind of fairy tale atmosphere of making the fake, see more and can help one's own program if having time.
Want to understand the society be unable to pass those foam idol's dramas, they are poisonous, it when being very deep, will let them influence one's own outlook on life and values directly that some people are poisoned, like getting rich quickly or perhaps have in life pennilessly in one night, can look like those that TV play broadcast simple direct, love and kindred have film and cruel definitely so, idol's drama will influence people's judgement to the society, so, please far away from foam idol's drama. Believe an outstanding girl, should be unable to spend host of time to indulge in idol's drama.
(I absolutely agree in this, I have not been liking TV play of Korea S. that compatriots love all the time, have also liked besides Paris lover me, I praise highly literary film and feature film of America and Europe, and discussion of human nature deep to can tonify the heart to life, bring thing liken the film, then I think, TV play of Korea S. is fast food or the junk food, America and Europe slice is certainly really worth just America and Europe slice is beef slice or the food of energy)
Six: The society stands and tolerant
After how old girl come 20, the society slowly will stand and tolerant soon, the society is not a wilful place, those big young ladies' temper wants the convergence slowly, because because you care, can let you lose self-respect some time perhaps, become the unbred woman criticized. Give those unfriendly persons a well-meaning smile, can let the other side fell too ashamed to show one's face, can leave the magnanimous and understanding good impression on others too. It stands to be cowardly, injure self-respect is but tolerant and American. Please put down bold and assured bad temper, let one when being appropriate, not merely can embody ability to control oneself of you, and will let you become the popular girl.
Will meet a lot of unfair things in life, will meet a lot of persons who let you be unable to accept too, we can't try to change others, instead of the behavior of others' very angry loud criticism, not so good as giving the other side a smile cherishing the psychology understood, the injury that anyone can not go " class =" wordstyle" >Injure a kindhearted person. The ones that shouted oneself hoarse dispute with others and can not gain the so-called self-respect, let you abandon self-respect instead.
(I approve this, but acknowledge needing much restraint and reason sometimes, because I am a woman of a real disposition, clear about what to love and what to hate, is rich in the sense of justice, if there are not smooth things, always think that though will stoop to compromise, will not really submit to and accept convincingly)
Seven: Train the psychology of the health, pay attention to one's own body
After how old girl reach 20, learn, regulate one's own psychology soon, protection own health well. The body is the most important, it is believed that everybody knows, while really doing, it is not anything simple. Two teenaged girls should already begin to pay attention to in diet, propose read more books about the dieting. Any girl, look after one's own health for all kinds of reasons, no matter how bright it will be tomorrow, and you meet it so as to first sick posture always, the ones that will not feel it either are beautiful.
(The woman loves oneself, the health is the capital of the revolution, only leave so that the green hill is here, have an opportunity to begin other a new vista, new student and journey that the path winds along mountain ridges)
Eight: Making it beautiful becomes your capital
After how old girl come 20, begin to let your beauty function soon, let your beauty grasp enough right to speak when being appropriate. Beautiful appearance and not every girl had, let beautiful appearance become your capital, use and use it when needing, it can open a lot of predicaments in life of yours, though sometimes someone says the beautiful girl is the vase, if the vase is put in the position suitable, it is a work of art. It is only short several years too that the girl's youth is beautiful, so should be good at utilizing your beauty.
But the girl can't be beautiful when can fall into complacently, it is the outstanding woman that it is full of wisdom and inherent to have appearance beautiful, invite girl reasonable own beauty of use, must not let oneself sink into because of one's own transient beauty.
(Oh, in short, beauty, and woman that intelligence regard as equally important could real work produce oneself, the beauty can be stopped by men, but intelligence is left for you by men, so I want to make the best of beautiful woman's heart and must realize that will disappear in a flash one day at last beautifully, want, remember margin decreasing effect, want, know how, store personality advantage and knowledge training,etc. inherent advantage that can not be subdued when being beautiful for oneself)
Nine: Having left any man, you will live very well
Girl reach how old it will be 20, want to treat one's own emotion reason, a lot of girl because of a certain man painful and passive work, the thing of the emotion is not who can held, why let oneself fall into the unpleasant mood by a man? One know how man to appreciate you, qualify for, let you to be sad and sad for him, every girl is beautiful, she is waiting for one to understand her man appears, the leaving of a certain man, can only say that and understand your man has not appeared yet, the man is not all of girl's life, instead of letting oneself fall into a hopeless love, not so good as graceful turning round, substantiate oneself, let oneself be put into study of job, ,etc. one day that piece leave it find you have success like this man of you, it is sure to regret he left you originally!
I think I leave he I live, later on I asked oneself 100 times too once: Has left him, can I live? The result is answered: It is very good that I will be alive. The girls must not trample on oneself, don't think that stooping to compromise could bring a man's love, the love is beautiful, the girl is beautiful too, do not allow any man to profane! Leave that man not knowing how to appreciate you, this is most magnificent turning round, though is unreconciled, the torment of the agony lets oneself have no energy to manage your working or studying instead.
(The ones that said are good, in the emotion, should no doubt love cordially, but will know how to withdraw in right time, can withdraw at any time, if you find out that knew people not clear by oneself originally, or the inhuman words liked, remember Buddhist's language: Our agony, because we pursue the wrong thing, remember to know to change by mistake, if direction mistake, stopping is a kind of progress) ! ! !
Ten: The motive of the reasonable wealth, learn to invest and manage
Girl reach how old it will be 20, begin, learn, manage money matters, don't think oneself to be unable to become the rich man soon, ones that spend money wastefully, don't think either that there will be money that can not be finished earning tomorrow, spend place that should spend money for today. There are many books about the financing on the market now, are all good, the girls can look if having time, should form the good habit of the financing, spend money, grow money is can in order to read some more books to invest and manage, they are the invisible wealth. Girls, no matter how much your income is now, plan for your tomorrow, clever one woman how should known spend money,how not to spend money pieces of art too actually.
The husband of Marry is a very rich man, she one day told me his husband, she says: My husband prefers to spend a lot of money buying a thing sometimes, but care in the colored stiver. Did not understand, thought about later that found, because he knew how to spend money if his husband was rich at that time, spend at practical thing money, no matter how expensively to needn't blink lower eyes, and some surplus money has been saved if it is possible in life. Some rich men will demonstrate in life stingily too, this is their habit all the time, otherwise, they will not become rich men.
(Oh, I comment on two sentences more the little woman: There are only two kinds of persons in the world: One kind is to understand financing, one is financing not understood, I study the Chinese one, though the little woman, mathematics roll area climb and often fail in the exam, have a headache and send knitting once seeing figures even, but I pay attention to fostering and training one's own financing consciousness, I have been the economic faithful audience of all the time, wealth starry sky and cut money and valuables allusion quatation of inside, have finance and economics read, discuss and contribute some classical theory and case rank from the level of higher life night)
11: Love and marriage can be with possession altogether
Girl reach how old it will be 20, face pressure of marriage soon, someone will say love and marriage two different matters, the woman who the man married can live together, might not really love deeply oneself, the man who the woman married can provide a warm and easy family for oneself, but really love oneself indefinitely. In the face of these speeches, it seems that a lot of people get married in order to get married, at the pressures of family and the society, have got married in order to get married. It is purposive too that some people get married, it may be for letting oneself have a place to stay, may be helpful for the undertaking for the future too, or can get some from the other side by oneself.
The ones that were asked in those are happy are newly-married, will know sometimes there can love and marriage together altogether, the so-called marriage is the grave of the love, can only say both sides do not understand how to manage the love, believe, determine as two people marry, both sides will certainly whether the other side have, feel, the day just after marriage lets the love dull. This is only only because after the marriage, man and woman have all put down the romance in the love, have put into the work. Those girls not getting married, do not want for some purposes but go to get married, it is a very simple thing to get married, it is so complicated that don't be done, believe love that each girl is wishing eagerly. When the girl meets that person that oneself loves deeply, will find, want to stay with him, may not matter rich or poorly, the life and death that would not matter. The girl mustn't get married in order to get married, don't get married in order to want to get a certain life either.
(This is the supreme goal that I pursue too, for me, it should not be the end of the love to get married, but give love a new starting point and harbour, there is the most sincere originally most true love in life, should enclose the beautiful one to some extent in love, it is my supreme ideal to enclose the beautiful love on the marriage and in life)
12: Who says the woman is not so good as men
Girl reach how old it will be 20, firmly believe among life on-the-job field soon, and not merely there is the man that has the achievement, women's all modish of thought now, the successful women all appear in all trades and professions, so long as the woman is diligent, she can shuttle back and forth in the man's world too. There are a lot of the woman's capital, the woman slightly shows the advantage in the on-the-job field, in some trades, the woman will give play to one's own unique advantage to piece together richly, they are all beautiful, capable makings, the tough attitudes, can all let men acknowledge allegiance to. The woman mustn't always want to develop in the kitchen, capable woman people can let the men appreciate, no the housewife's role will prevail now, host of excellent world waits for women to pursue outside.
Unless it want one pieces of man woman it depend on, on the society,nobody must irrational care who. How the woman depends on a man, she does not have one's own thought, in this individual character enables the right environment, the men all like having women with capable distinction too. Who says the woman is not so good as men? Diligent, so long as you have a one's own sky, do you still fear that are not there white clouds under this one's own sky? So long as you are an exceptionally gifted woman, fear the outstanding man does not appreciate you?
(Oh, everybody say, do well, might as well marry kind, but I think, afford to do always, compare one good man have of whom one kind woman could mix, have sentence: There is no spark, does not take on that porcelain to live! One woman or man have oneself original precise and penetrating prescription can really appreciate and like always, cherish and support the person of you!
13: Look for one can help you husband to realize dream
After how old girl come 20, there is a clear dream soon, then go to struggle for this dream, must not change after you have confirmed a dream, seem to be as you find to one can help you to realize the man of the dream, the husband who must try every possible means to let him become you is the same. The woman mustn't think it can realized alone that some were dreamt of, or there are very outstanding women, the one that specially set up and do alone wants to realize the dream by one's own efforts, but if the man does backing, this dream can get very good realization, especially can offer the man of financial support.
The girl with the dream seems little, some girls only want to have simple work and simple love in life now, the happy one lives to stay with a man. And really outstanding man, they will hope one's own wife is an ambitious woman, so, if the woman has dreams, the man will spare no effort to support. The woman can well let one's own dream marry a man together following oneself, so long as he would like to help you to realize the dream, it is a man knowing how to appreciate you to explain him.
(Oh, now I think actually whom I lacked most is such a man, I seem not to lack all sorts of intention and inspiration, thinking and dream, every ambitious woman will hope, have piece understand she love he can help oneself realize man of dream in the abyss of the mind that can appear in time in the heart of hearts)
14: Let the youth be a little wantonner, a little radiant with more smiles
After how old girl reach 20, on the occasion of youthful time, have host of youth can a wanton one fine to set free. The girl is a little more unbending when being appropriate, a little prouder when being appropriate, slight affecting of corner of the mouth that can let those be beautiful. Two teenaged girl most beautiful, can with smiling wantonly, can cry with a unbending one. Two teenaged girls mustn't be afraid of failing, the youth has just begun, we have capital failing, we can resume one's own pursuit. Two teenaged girls want to make the truest oneself, the magnificent smile that the most beautiful time leaves, let love appearing distinct, want, dare, like, dare, hate, dare to pursue.
After how old girl reach 20, one in full bloom beautiful flower most, must remember, issue oneself think only will it be florescence one season in girl, must not let one's own florescence accept unnecessary wrecking for others. Two teenaged girl one cup green tea, a among them one must leave people tasted to understand while being delicate and pretty, pure breath that don't let those persons that has not sampled trample on you. Two teenaged girls are a bright blue sky, it is sad, it can be spacious too, however, please remember, it must have the one that pursue.
(Oh, once I was a girl radiant with smiles, it was loved by all that can be regarded as too, but later on the people because around all say that laughing will increase wrinkles, then confined one's own smile, find one's own sunshine of heart it seems to be no plentiful then, now I think that had better follow one's inclinations a bit more at will, I do not evade the fine lineses brought of magnificent candid smiling when I am really to one's heart's content, but I begin to enjoy the smiling time of a person, today, that is other a kind of implicit and soft and graceful feelings! )
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